September 25, 2023

Frontotemporal dementia (FTD)

Frontotemporal dementia (FTD) is an umbrella term for a cluster of conditions that makes up about 10 percent of dementia cases. It’s the most common form when dementia occurs before age 65.

What sets FTD apart is a sudden and dramatic change.

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September 18, 2023

Caring as a stepfamily

The majority of us feel obliged to help an ailing parent (77 percent, according to Pew Research Center). But if your parent is okay and your stepparent is ill, then what? Should you help with caregiving? (Pew data indicate 56 percent of us feel obliged.)

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September 11, 2023

Managing pain with music

Here’s a prescription for pain relief: the sound of music.

Pain is very real. It is also a perception. How strongly we feel pain at any given time depends a good deal on our thoughts and mood. Music has a profound influence on both.

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September 4, 2023

When you feel more resentment than love

If you are caring for a parent or parents who abused or neglected you in childhood, your situation is especially challenging. You may feel on an emotional tightrope, trying to keep your balance, with many conflicting feelings. For example,

  • guilt, that you “should” take care of your parent, no matter how he or she treated you
  • resentment, that their illness forces you to maintain close contact
  • hope of finally receiving your parent’s love and approval

Research indicates that you are put at much greater risk of depression by these stressors than are those who did not experience parental abuse or neglect.

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